Although bullying escalates over a period of time, some children try out a new idea and expect an immediate result.
Tell your child: It's not easy getting the recipe right-for example, maybe you forget to use eye contact, you sound angry or look like limp celery. You could become discouraged with the 'all or nothing' or 'hit or miss' method. You say, 'It didn't work'. No-one can expect instant results, especially without coaching. When you plan suitable action, take five to ten minutes every day to practise new ideas.Something will improve, but you need to lookfor small, subtle improvements. It takes time to block bullying effectively.
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