Longterm Goals

Acquire positive discipline strategies that set reasonable limits on and encourage independence in teenagers. 2. Guide the teenager to develop effective problem-solving skills and strategies for success at home, school, and in the community. 3. Build a positive relationship with the teenager that can carry over into adulthood. 4. Demonstrate respect, regard, and unconditional love for the teenager. 5. Teenager develops independence, self-reliance, and a pattern of responsible behavior.

Therapeutic Interventions

Identify long- and short-term personal and family goals and create a plan for their attainment. (1, 2) Access community agencies that provide social, financial, and medical assistance. (3, 4) 1. Meet with the parents to take a family history, clarify family issues and concerns and identify immediate financial, social, and emotional needs. 2. Assist the parents in planning for long- and short-term goal attainment (or assign the Achieving Family Goals activity from the Parenting Skills Homework...

Sibling Rivalry

Pain and the Great One. New York Simon and Schuster. Covey, S. (1997). The Seven Habits of Highly Effective Families Building a Beautiful Family Culture in a Turbulent World. New York Golden Books Publishing Co. Crary, E., and M. Katayama (Illustrator) (1996). Help The Kids Are at It Again Using Kids'Quarrels to Teach People Skills. Seattle, WA Parenting Press. Faber, A. and Mazlish, E. (1982). How to Talk so Kids Will Listen and Listen so Kids Will Talk. New...

Behavioral Definitions

Divorce and or separation are anticipated, in progress, or completed. 2. Various family members experience stress, fatigue, depression, anxiety, and mood swings. 3. Increased workload in the household, disorganization, and feelings of being overwhelmed. 4. Self-absorption and preoccupation with personal problems and reduced focus on the children. 5. Lack of consistent, positive, and compassionate discipline. 6. Drastic drop in income and a change in lifestyle for the mother and the children. 7....

Prenatal Parenting Preparation

Touchpoints Your Child's Emotional and Behavioral Development. Reading, MA Addison-Wesley. Churchill Films (1992). Expect More Than a Baby Los Angeles, CA. (Video) Curtis, G., and J. Schuler (2000). Your Pregnancy Week by Week. Cambridge, MA Fisher. Eisenberg, A., H. Mrukoff, and S. Hathaway (1996). What to Expect When You're Expecting. New York Workman Publishing. Lifestart Multimedia Corp. (1997). The Baby System Pregnancy and Birth (Video and Book). Salt Lake City, UT...

Spousal Role and Relationship Conflict

Don't Sweat the Small Stuff with Your Family. New York Hyperion. Chapman, G. (1995). The Five Love Languages How to Express Heartfelt Commitment to Your Mate. Chicago Northfield Publishing. Covey, S. (1997). The Seven Habits of Highly Effective Families. New York Golden Books. Gordon, T. (2000). Parent Effectiveness Training. New York, NY, Three Rivers Press. Henry, O. (1988). The Gift of the Magi. New York Simon and Schuster. McGraw, P. (2001). Relationship Rescue. New York...

How To Use This Planner

The Parenting Skills Treatment Planner was developed as a tool to aide family-oriented mental health professionals in writing a treatment plan in a rapid manner that is clear, specific, and highly individualized according to the following progression 1. Choose one presenting problem disability (Step One) you have identified through your assessment process. Locate the corresponding page number for that problem disability in the Planner's table of contents. 2. Select two or three of the listed...

Attention DeficitHyperactivity Disorder ADHD

Taking Charge of ADHD The Complete, Authoritative Guide For Parents. New York Guilford Press. Fay, J., F. Cline, and C. Fay (2000). Becoming a Love and Logic Parent. Golden, CO The Love and Logic Press. Hallowell, E., and J. Ratey (1994). Driven to Distraction. New York Pantheoon Books. Richfield, S. (1998). Parent Coaching Cards. Blue Bell, PA Parent Coaching Cards, Inc. Shapiro, L. (1994). Jumpin' Jake Settles Down. Secaucus, NJ Childswork Childsplay.

Interventions

List the essential needs of an elementary school child and create a plan for accommodating those needs. 2. Establish limits for the child using I statements, choices, positive conditions, and time out. 1. Brainstorm with the parents the essential requirements for the healthy development of their child (e.g., food, shelter, affirmation, discipline, character development) determine how these needs are being met. 2. Assist the parents in creating a definition of unconditional love (e.g., complete...

Grief Loss

The Way Children Grieve. www.counselingforloss.com Counseling for Loss and Life Changes. Buscaglia, L. (1985). The Fall of Freddie the Leaf. Chatsworth, CA AIMS Media. Clayton, J. (1997). Lessons from Geese. www.counselingforloss.com Counseling For Loss and Life Changes. Coloroso, B. (1999). Parenting with Wit and Wisdom in Times of Chaos and Loss. Toronto, Ontario Penguin Group. Faber, A., and E. Mazlish (1982,) How to Talk so Kids Will Listen and Listen so Kids Will Talk....

Sexual Responsibility

Sex Myths and Facts (rev.) Los Angeles, CA. (Video) Alfred Higgins Productions (1995). Teens at Risk Breaking the Immortality Myth. Los Angeles, CA. (Video) Bell, R. (1998). Changing Bodies, Changing Lives Expanded Third Edition A Book for Teens on Sex and Relationships. New York Three Rivers Press. Copperfield Films (1981). Dear Diary. Boston Copperfield Films. (Video) Gordon, S., and J. Gordon (1989). Raising a Child Conservatively in a Sexually Permissive...

Abusive Parenting

Kirberger (1993). Chicken Soup for the Soul. Deerfield Beach, FL Health Communications. Coloroso, B. (1994). Kids Are Worth It New York William Morrow and Company, Inc. Dinkmeyer, D., and G. McKay (1989). Systematic Training for Effective Parenting (STEP). Circle Pines, MN American Guidance Service. Dreikurs, R., and V Stoltz (1964). Children The Challenge. New York Plume Printing. Moorman, C. (1996). Where the Heart Is Stories of Home and Family. Merrill, MI...

Planner Focus

The Parenting Skills Treatment Planner is designed for all adult and family therapists, family life educators, clergy, pediatric doctors and nurses, and other mental health professionals who provide guidance, counseling, and therapeutic support to parents and their children. The contents incorporate an extensive representation of the social-emotional, behavioral, academic, and interpersonal challenges faced by families as their children grow into adulthood. Interventions have been designed to...

Sarah Edison Knapp Arthur E Jongsma Jr

This book is printed on acid-free paper. Copyright 2005 by Sarah Edison Knapp and Arthur E. Jongsma, Jr. All rights reserved. Published by John Wiley & Sons, Inc., Hoboken, New Jersey. Published simultaneously in Canada. No part of this publication may be reproduced, stored in a retrieval system, or transmitted in any form or by any means, electronic, mechanical, photocopying, recording, scanning, or otherwise, except as permitted under Section 107 or 108 of the 1976 United States Copyright...

Strategies for Children Age to

Parenting with Love and Logic. Colorado Springs, CO Navpress. Dinkmeyer, D., and G. McKay (1989). Systematic Training for Effective Parenting (STEP). Circle Pines, MN American Guidance Service. Fay, J. (1988). Helicopters, Drill Sergeants, and Consultants. Golden, CO Cline Fay Institute, Inc. (Audiotape) Fay, J., F. Cline, and C. Fay (2000). Becoming a Love and Logic Parent. Golden, CO The Love and Logic Press. Gordon, T. (2000). Parent Effectiveness Training. New...

Substance Abuse

Parenting Teens with Love and Logic. Colorado Springs, CO Navpress. DiPrisco, J. (2000). Field Guide to the American Teenager A Parent's Companion. New York Perseus Book Group. Jalil, G. (1996). Street Wise Drug Prevention. Reading, PA No More Drugs Inc. Moorman, C. (1998). Parent Talk Words That Empower, Words That Wound. Merrill, MI Personal Power Press. Wachel, T., D. York, and P. York (1982). Toughlove. Garden City, NJ Doubleday.

Strategies for Preschoolers Age Birth to

Touchpoints The Essential Reference. New York Addison-Wesley. Cline, F., and J. Fay (1990). Parenting with Love and Logic. Colorado Springs, CO Navpress. Covey, S. (1997). The Seven Habits of Highly Effective Families Building a Beautiful Family Culture in a Turbulent World. New York Golden Books Publishing Co. Dinkmeyer, D., G. McKay, and Dinkmeyer (1989). Parenting Young Children. Circle Pines, MN American Guidance Service. Dreikurs, R., and V Stoltz (1964). Children The...

Contents

PracticePlanners Series Preface xiii Attention-Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder (ADHD) 21 Children with Physical Challenges 78 Conduct Disorder Delinquent Behavior 88 Dependent Children Overprotective Parent 98 Oppositional Defiant Disorder (ODD) 162 Peer Relationships Influences 170 Posttraumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD) 179 Prenatal Parenting Preparation 195 School Adjustment Difficulties 204 Spousal Role and Relationship Conflict 240 Strategies for Preschoolers (Age Birth to Six) 249 Strategies...

Acknowledgments

Writing this planner has been an effort of joy and dedication for me. I am aware that parenting is the most difficult job assumed by human beings. I thank my own children Michael Knapp and Heather Werkema for teaching me this lesson throughout their childhood years. They are now lovingly and graciously repaying my efforts with their own amazing life journeys. I am immensely grateful to co-author Art Jongsma who has worked diligently with me on this treatment planner ever since its inception....

Strategies for Teenagers Age to

Parenting Teens with Love and Logic. Colorado Springs, CO Navpress. Covey, S. (1997). The Seven Habits of Highly Effective Families Building a Beautiful Family Culture in a Turbulent World. New York Golden Books Publishing Co. Dinkmeyer, D., G. McKay, J. McKay, and D. Dinkmeyer (1998). Parenting Teenagers Systematic Training for Effective Parenting of Teens. Circle Pines, MN American Guidance Service. Dreikurs, R., and V Stoltz (1964). Children The Challenge. New...

School Adjustment Difficulties

Parenting with Love and Logic. Colorado Springs, CO Navpress. Darcey, J., L. Tiore, and G. Ladd.(2000). Your Anxious Child How Parents and Teachers Can Relieve Anxiety in Children. San Francisco, CA Jossey-Bass. Dinkmeyer, D., and G. McKay (1989). Systematic Training for Effective Parenting (STEP). Circle Pines, MN American Guidance Service. Fay, J. (1988). Helicopters, Drill Sergeants, and Consultants. Golden, CO Cline Fay Institute, Inc. (Audiotape) McEwan, E....

Oppositional Defiant Disorder ODD

Everything I Do You Blame on Me. Plainview, NY Childswork Childsplay, LLC. Barkley, R. (1998). Your Defiant Child Eight Steps to Better Behavior. New York Guilford. Fay, J., F. Cline, and C. Fay. )2000). Becoming a Love and Logic Parent. Golden, CO The Love and Logic Press. Forehand, R., and N. Long. (1996). Parenting the Strong-Willed Child. New York NTC Publishing Group. Greene, R. (1998). The Explosive Child. New York HarperCollins. Koplewicz, H. (1996). It's Nobody's Fault...

Single Parenting

Fay (2000). Becoming a Love and Logic Parent. Golden, CO The Love and Logic Press. Moorman, C., and S. Knapp (2001). The Parent Talk System The Language of Responsible Parenting. Merrill, MI Personal Power Press. Noel, B., A. Klein, and A. Klein (1998). The Single Parent Resource. New York Champion Pr. Ltd. Peterson, M. (2003). Single Parenting for Dummies. New York For Dummies. Richmond, G. (1998). Successful Single Parenting. New York Harvest House. Teyber, E....

Treatment Plan Utility

Detailed, written treatment plans can benefit the family therapist and other mental health professionals working with parents and their children to address problems interfering with positive parent child relationships, effective discipline, and the functional operation of the family unit. The parents are served by a written plan because it stipulates the issues that are the focus of the treatment process. The treatment plan is a guide that structures the focus of the therapeutic interventions...

Developing A Treatment Plan

The process of developing a treatment plan involves a logical series of steps that build on each other much like constructing a house. The foundation of any effective treatment plan is the data gathered in a comprehensive evaluation. As part of the process prior to developing the treatment plan, the family counselor must sensitively listen to and understand what the parents struggle with in terms of family dynamics, cognitive abilities, current stressors, social network, physical health and...

Practiceplanners Series Preface

The practice of psychotherapy has a dimension that did not exist 30, 20, or even 15 years ago accountability. Treatment programs, public agencies, clinics, and even group and solo practitioners must now justify the treatment of patients to outside review entities that control the payment of fees. This development has resulted in an explosion of paperwork. Clinicians must now document what has been done in treatment, what is planned for the future, and what the anticipated outcomes of the...

Historical Background

Our research and brainstorming determined that pediatric health care providers, family counselors, family life educators, clergy, family mental health agencies, family courts, adoption agencies, child protection services, day care programs, foster parent programs, private and public school programs, and numerous other mental health care providers who support parents and their children would view a treatment guide focusing on techniques of developing positive parent child relationships as...