How are you currently reacting to your kid's insensitive attitude? Are you yelling at him, avoiding the whole issue, complaining to everyone else, searching for effective consequences, blaming his friends or school, or blaming yourself? Might you or someone else be dismissing his feelings or concerns as irrational, silly, or insignificant?
What part of your response is not working so your kid continues to flaunt an insensitive attitude? Is it your voice tone? Your inconsistency? Ignoring it? Yelling at him? Ask yourself what response is the most ineffective, write it down here, and resolve not to use it again.
I will not_
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